You know what i hate?

Being tested by another person.

Or any other form of those mind games.

It’s really fucking stupid. When i’m asking you for your opinion on a decision, it’s because I really care about your input and I take that into consideration. It’s not so that you can tell me to choose the other option, but in reality, you’re testing me so that I’d pick the option you really wanted me to.. “You should have known the answer.” What the fuck. That’s why I’m asking you..

Seriously, this goes for everyone, whether you’re in a relationship, friendship, or whatever, don’t try to test the other person. Because more likely than not, that person is going to have no idea that they’re being test. And with that, they’re probably either going to fail and/or respond with the “answer” that is less than what you were expecting.

So when i told you that we don’t have to hang out on Valentine’s Day because you were sick, I had an exam the next day, and how Valentine’s Day isn’t a big deal to me. I’m not testing you. That’s how i seriously feel about that day. When i point out another girl, I’m not testing you. I actually think she’s really pretty. So when i ask you if i should go on some spontaneous adventure, you shouldn’t test me. If you wanted me to stay, you should have said so.

Seriously guys, leave these mind games in middle school and just be honest + straightforward with each other. at. all. times.

2 months ago  /  8 notes